Your wedding day
It’s a day for you and the love of your life to stand in front of your friends and family and make a lifelong commitment to each other. It’s about you two, your story and what you both like. Whether you want to get hitched in your front room, on a beach at midnight or up a mountain, wearing traditional wedding garb, Star Trek uniforms or motorbiking leathers, it’s your day and it’s your call.
With an independent celebrant, you don’t have to be restricted to licensed venues or to one-size-fits-all services. Your wedding ceremony can be anywhere you like (within reason – the middle of the M25 probably wouldn’t be advisable!), can include any readings you like and can incorporate as much – or as little – religion or spirituality as you like.
Don’t let the wheels of the wedding industry juggernaut crush your creativity. Get in touch today and we can start creating a ceremony that reflects the two of you perfectly.
A registrar has to stick to a pretty rigid script and, whilst you may be able to include readings, you will not be permitted to have anything with any religious or spiritual content. You may have a limited choice of vows but you probably won’t be able to use your own. You may meet your registrar once beforehand if you are lucky, but he or she will not be able to spend much time getting to know you. Also, a registrar’s ‘slot’, even when coming out to your venue, will typically be around 20 minutes and they will have several weddings all on the same day.
As an independent celebrant, after spending time getting to know you both, I will create you a totally personal and unique ceremony which will reflect your interests, beliefs and wishes. You can include religious or spiritual content if you wish, and I can even weave together two religious or cultural backgrounds into one ceremony if you so desire. Atheist, religious or completely woo-woo, it’s all good!
I can help you craft your vows so that your promises come from the heart, not a service sheet.
And I only ever do one wedding per day, so you can have a ceremony as long or as short as you wish, knowing I won’t be rushing to or from another couple.
No. However, just as you would register a baby and have a naming ceremony separately, you can do the ‘legal bit’ at the registry office at any time. Most couples choose the week before the ceremony but it’s totally up to you.
The statutory wedding service normally costs around £50 (this varies slightly from county to county) and consists of fewer than 50 words. Once you have done this part, you are free to have your ‘real’ wedding, with rings, vows, readings and other elements wherever and whenever you like. This leaves you much freer with venue choice and you don’t have to restrict numbers if you don’t want to.
Pretty much anything you like! Some couples choose to stick fairly closely to tradition with the structure and wording of their ceremony, others go wherever their imagination takes them.
There are some beautiful options you can choose, like a sand ceremony, unity candle, handfasting, jumping the broom or a dove release. We can chat through ideas and I can make some suggestions based on what would suit the sort of feel you are after for your wedding.
Weddings within an hour’s travelling time of Worthing, West Sussex, cost £600. Further travel or equipment (e.g. sand ceremony kits etc) will incur further reasonable costs, but this will be discussed and agreed on early in the process, so you won’t incur sudden unexpected expense.
When considering your options, it is worth noting that this price is about the same as – or sometimes less than – booking a registrar to come to your venue.
What your investment will buy you:
- A guaranteed booking of your wedding day. No ‘slots’ – I book out the whole day for you in my diary, so you get to say when and where you want me.
- A first meeting of about an hour, where we discuss early ideas and get the ‘big picture’ of the wedding.
- A second meeting where I find out all about you both: your likes and dislikes, your interests, how you met, what you hope for the future, what makes you laugh… We will also firm up the details of what the ceremony will include.
- A unique wedding ceremony script, written by me, to reflect your love story and all of the things you have told me about yourselves. This will be sent to you for your approval or amendment.
- Help writing your vows, if you wish.
- Advice on readings, ceremonies and other aspects of the wedding itself.
- My attendance at a wedding rehearsal, if required.
- My delivery of your ceremony on your big day.
- A personalised Creating Ceremony wedding certificate and presentation script, if you would like one.
Do you have a question that isn’t listed above? Drop me a line and I’ll get back to you quickly.
Some recent testimonials:
“Thank you once again for being an amazing celebrant. Everyone commented on how wonderful and personal our celebration was. It was made so special by you.” (Pat and Sarah)
“Thank you doesn’t express how much we appreciated your hard work, thoughtfulness and professionalism in crafting and conducting the most beautiful wedding ceremony we could have ever wished for. We had a wonderful time and have received so many lovely comments about how personal and special the ceremony was.” (Louise and Mick)
Photograph by Flashsnap Photography